Category: Godly Beauty

  • Dry Lips, Meet Your Death: The Iron Dome Of Lip Care

    Dry Lips, Meet Your Death: The Iron Dome Of Lip Care

    The Winter Lip Care Secret That Actually Works (When Everything Else Fails)

    Mama,

    I found gold. Have you heard of Israel’s Iron Dome? That thing is a BEAST!

    Just youtube it in action.

    I am so convinced that the God of Israel placed it there to protect His beloved.

    In case you are wondering what it is, it’s an all weather air defense system to protect against things that would try to destroy or hurt it like rockets, drones or artillery shells.

    Well God showed me the Iron Dome of lip care!

    I swear the first time I put it on, I said to my husband: Babe, this feels like the iron dome on my lips!!!

    Like in star wars, their dome shield when they were being attacked!!! It feels just like it!!!

    It’s sooo good!

    My lips go in dried and jacked up and this thing really restores them!!!

    Maybe you’ve tried everything?

    The drugstore balms that wear off in twenty minutes. The “natural” options that leave your lips feeling waxy. The expensive department store tubes that promise miracles but deliver mediocrity. And still, every winter morning, you wake up to that familiar feeling—tight, cracked, painful lips that no amount of product seems to fix.

    Here’s what a-lot of mamas don’t think about: winter lip care isn’t about applying more product. It’s about creating an actual protective barrier that defends against the brutal environmental assault your lips face every single day.

    The Real Cost of “Good Enough” Lip Care

    Think about how many times today you’ll touch your lips. How many times you’ll avoid smiling fully because you feel that tight, uncomfortable pull. How you’ll excuse yourself from conversations to reapply whatever you’re currently using, knowing it’ll be gone again in an hour.

    This isn’t vanity—it’s quality of life. When your lips are constantly uncomfortable, everything suffers. Your confidence. Your appearance. Your willingness to speak up in meetings or lean in for that kiss goodnight.

    And the damage accumulates. Each winter of inadequate protection means deeper lines, more sensitivity, longer recovery time. Your lips are literally begging for something that actually works.

    What Actually Protects Your Lips (The Defense System Approach)

    During my research into why some lip products work while others fail spectacularly, I came across some cool stuff that changed everything. The best lip protection doesn’t just moisturize—it creates a defensive shield that actively repels the environmental attacks causing the damage in the first place.

    Think about it like this: You wouldn’t try to stay warm in a blizzard by just adding more layers while standing in the wind. You’d seek shelter first, then add warmth. Most lip products skip the shelter part entirely.

    The products that actually work during harsh winters do three things simultaneously:

    • Create an invisible protective barrier that defends against wind, cold, and dry air
    • Deliver deep hydration that doesn’t just sit on the surface
    • Maintain protection for hours, not minutes

    This is the difference between constantly reapplying and actually solving the problem.

    The Discovery That Changed My Winter Routine

    I found something that brings all of these concepts together in a way that actually makes sense: this creamy lip whip that works like a defensive shield for your lips. The texture is unlike anything else—it’s substantial enough that you can feel the protection, but so smooth you’ll actually want to wear it.

    What you will love most isn’t just the immediate relief (though that’s impressive). It’s how it fundamentally changed the equation. Instead of nursing damaged lips back to health every few hours, you’re preventing the damage from happening in the first place.

    The creamy formula creates that protective barrier we talked about—the one that actually defends against environmental assault rather than just temporarily coating the surface. And because it works with your lips’ natural moisture instead of fighting against it, the protection lasts exponentially longer than traditional balms.

    Why This Matters More Than You Think

    Here’s what nobody tells you: The lip care you use this winter determines your lip health for the entire year. Damage that happens now creates sensitivity and vulnerability that persists long after the weather warms up.

    Every day you spend with inadequate protection is another day of damage accumulation. Another day of discomfort you don’t need to endure. Another day further away from the confidence of knowing your lips look and feel exactly how you want them to.

    You deserve lip care that actually works. Not “pretty good” or “better than nothing”—actually solves the problem so completely that you forget you ever struggled with dry winter lips.

    The sooner you implement a real protective approach, the faster you’ll experience what your lips are supposed to feel like. Comfortable. Smooth. Protected. Finally.

    Stop managing the damage and start preventing it. Your lips will thank you every single day this winter—and beyond.

    Stay close to Abba, JC

  • The Christian Mother’s Paradox: When Being “Too Tired to Sleep” Becomes Your New Normal

    The Christian Mother’s Paradox: When Being “Too Tired to Sleep” Becomes Your New Normal

    You know that moment when you finally collapse into bed after a seventeen-hour day of serving your family, and your body is so wired, so overstimulated, that sleep feels impossible? Your exhaustion needs its own nap, but your mind won’t stop racing through tomorrow’s to-do list, replaying today’s struggles, processing every sound from the baby monitor.

    And here’s the trap so many Christian mothers fall into: You’re desperate for relief, but every solution feels like a compromise. Wine would work, and that would be an easy fix but you refuse to numb your senses or risk your clarity for hearing the Holy Spirit or for when your children need you at 2 AM. Melatonin leaves you groggy and clumsy—hardly the safe arms your baby deserves. Prescription sleep aids? That’s not the path God has for your family.

    You’re stuck between exhaustion that’s destroying your patience, your marriage, your joy… and solutions that violate your commitment to staying present, alert, and spiritually sensitive.

    The Hidden Cost of Motherhood’s “Acceptable Suffering”

    Most people don’t realize that chronic overstimulation doesn’t just steal your sleep—it’s quietly eroding the very foundations of your family life. That edge in your voice with your husband isn’t a character flaw; it’s your nervous system running on fumes. The impatience with your children isn’t a spiritual failing; it’s a body that desperately needs to downshift but has forgotten how.

    We’ve normalized the image of the exhausted, frazzled mother as some kind of badge of honor. But God never intended for you to sacrifice your wellbeing on the altar of motherhood. Your family doesn’t need a martyr—they need you rested, restored, and present.

    The cruel irony? The more depleted you become, the harder it is to access the peace that’s already available to you. Your body gets trapped in a cycle of sympathetic nervous system overdrive, making genuine rest feel impossible even when the opportunity arrives.

    What I Discovered About Calm Without Compromise

    Here’s what changed everything for me: understanding that true rest isn’t about shutting down your senses—it’s about supporting your body’s natural ability to transition from chaos to calm while maintaining full presence.

    I came across an approach that specifically addresses the Christian mother’s dilemma: how to wind down genuinely without sacrificing alertness, spiritual sensitivity, or your ability to respond to your children with full confidence. It’s not about numbing or sedating—it’s about nourishing your body’s natural rhythms back into balance.

    The difference is profound. Instead of choosing between exhaustion and impairment, there’s a third path: arriving at genuine calm while keeping all your faculties intact. You can finally experience that deep exhale your soul has been craving, wake refreshed when your baby needs you, and still maintain the spiritual clarity that’s non-negotiable in your walk with God.

    Your Family Deserves the Real You

    Think about what six months of genuine rest could do for your marriage. For your patience with your children. For your capacity to hear God’s voice clearly instead of through the fog of chronic exhaustion.

    The solution I discovered integrates everything: natural support for your overstimulated nervous system, zero compromise on your values, and the full presence your family deserves. I found this specific approach through Solle Naturals’ ReNūe, and it’s specifically formulated for women who refuse to choose between rest and responsibility.

    This isn’t about adding another supplement to your cabinet. This is about reclaiming the quality of life God intended for you—where rest restores instead of sedates, where calm doesn’t mean compromised, and where taking care of yourself is actually the most selfless thing you can do for your family.

    Don’t let another month pass watching your best years slip away in a fog of overstimulation and exhaustion. Your loved ones don’t just deserve a present mother—they deserve you at your best. And you deserve to experience the peace that’s been waiting for you all along.

    The framework for genuine, uncompromising rest is already proven and available. Discover how ReNūe supports Christian mothers in reclaiming both their rest and their presence—without a single compromise.


    New King James Version
    But those who wait on the LORD Shall renew their strength; They shall mount up with wings like eagles, They shall run and not be weary, They shall walk and not faint. Isaiah 4O:31

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  • Stop Staring At The Cold Sore On My Face: The Cold Sore Shame

    Stop Staring At The Cold Sore On My Face: The Cold Sore Shame

    You wake up, feel that familiar tingle on your lip, and your heart sinks. Not again. Not now. You know what’s coming—the swelling, the pain, and worst of all, the self-consciousness that makes you want to cancel every plan and hide from the world.

    If you’ve ever experienced the horror of a cold sore appearing right before an important event, you know it’s not just physical pain. It’s the shame. The feeling that everyone is staring. The desperate attempts to cover it up that somehow make it more obvious. The internal monologue that whispers you’re unattractive, unclean, somehow less than.

    And here’s what makes it worse: most treatments just address the surface symptoms. They might speed healing by a day or two, but they’re not actually dealing with what’s happening beneath the skin.

    The Truth About Viral Outbreaks Nobody Tells You

    Most people don’t realize that herpes simplex virus (the cause of cold sores) lives dormant in your nerve cells, waiting for the right moment to resurface. Stress, illness, sun exposure—these are just triggers. The real issue is that the virus is sitting there, ready to ambush you publicly at the worst possible time.

    Traditional antiviral medications are exactly that—antiviral. They work against the virus, trying to slow it down. But what if there was something different? Something that actually eliminated the virus at the cellular level rather than just suppressing symptoms?

    Here’s what I discovered while researching breakthrough approaches to viral management: there’s emerging recognition of plants that don’t just resist viruses (antiviral) but actually destroy them (virucidal). The distinction is massive, yet most people have never heard about it.

    From Symptom Management to Root Solution

    I came across fascinating research on a plant called Melissa officinalis—commonly known as lemon balm. The scientific community has documented something remarkable: this plant has demonstrated virucidal properties specifically against herpes simplex virus types 1 and 2.

    Think about what that means. Instead of waiting for an outbreak and then trying to minimize the damage, you’re addressing the virus itself at the root level.

    The implications go beyond just preventing that next embarrassing outbreak. It’s about reclaiming the mental energy you waste worrying about when the next one will appear. It’s about not having to stockpile cover-up makeup or cancel plans because you “don’t feel presentable.”

    Why This Changes Everything

    When I found this approach, what struck me wasn’t just the science—it was the relief people expressed. That deep exhale that comes when you realize you’re not powerless anymore. When the solution isn’t just about damage control but actual resolution.

    The difference between managing symptoms and addressing root causes isn’t subtle. One keeps you dependent on quick fixes; the other gives you back control.

    What fascinated me most was how this aligned with what advanced wellness practitioners have been saying for years: your body has an incredible capacity to defend itself when given the right support at the cellular level.

    The Path Forward

    Everything we’ve discussed comes together in one comprehensive solution. After extensive research, I found something that brings these virucidal properties together in a practical, bioavailable format: SolleReNūe® from Solle Naturals.

    This isn’t about adding another cream to your medicine cabinet. It’s about supporting your body’s natural defenses from within, using concentrated plant compounds that research shows can actively combat viral activity.

    You’ll see exactly how to apply these insights to your specific situation—whether you’re dealing with frequent outbreaks or simply want to prevent that next one from ruining an important moment.

    The sooner you implement these strategies, the faster you’ll see results. Because every day you wait is another day spent in that cycle of worry, outbreak, shame, and temporary relief—only to repeat it all again.

    You deserve more than just symptom management. You deserve the confidence that comes from knowing you’re addressing the real problem, not just covering it up.

    JC

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    references/ studies

    https://mdedge.com/edermatologynews/article/56671/infectious-diseases/melissa-officinalis

    https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19023806/

    https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/36655201/

    https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC9143328/

    https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC4245564/

    https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/34449930/

    Greens, Allison Caldwell Andrews

    *This statement and this product have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration and is not intended to prevent, treat, or cure disease. This website does not provide medical advice. The information provided is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always consult with a qualified healthcare provider before using any new product, especially for children.

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  • COME TO ME EARLY

    COME TO ME EARLY

    “COME TO ME EARLY, COME TO ME OFTEN”

    Before your first meal…

    “COME TO ME EARLY, COME TO ME OFTEN”

    Before you start to stare at your circumstances…

    “COME TO ME EARLY, COME TO ME OFTEN”

    Before you feel the heartache start to take over…

    “COME TO ME EARLY, COME TO ME OFTEN”

    Before the sorrows of sheol start to encircle your vision …

    “COME TO ME EARLY, COME TO ME OFTEN”

    Before the quite despair begs for a place at your table

    “COME TO ME EARLY, COME TO ME OFTEN”

    Before you hold ought in your heart towards your husband…

    “COME TO ME EARLY, COME TO ME OFTEN”

    Before the unholy anger takes root…

    “COME TO ME EARLY, COME TO ME OFTEN”

    Before the anxiety and torment invite illness…

    “COME TO ME EARLY, COME TO ME OFTEN”

    “COME TO ME EARLY, COME TO ME OFTEN”

    I think sometimes as mothers it can be easy to fix our gaze on many things that won’t grow our relationship with God.

    Now it’s not just our hearts we tend and mend.

    We have been entrusted to hold our husbands hearts and hearts of our young ones.

    Let us go to Him early and go to Him often, because anything less of COMPLETE DEVOTION IS CERTAIN DEATH.

    With Love, JC

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    PS, if you are not doing a full body anointing as soon as you wake, you are missing out. You dont need any fancy oil. Just start with whatever is in your kitchen. Here is one of my absolute favorites.

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  • The Invisible Gland That’s Quietly Sabotaging Your Energy (And Why Most Women Over 40 Miss It)

    The Invisible Gland That’s Quietly Sabotaging Your Energy (And Why Most Women Over 40 Miss It)

    Hey beautiful!

    You’ve tried everything. More sleep. Better supplements. Cutting out caffeine. Adding caffeine back in. Yet that bone-deep exhaustion persists. The brain fog lingers. And your body feels like it’s betraying you in ways you can’t quite articulate to your doctor.

    Here’s what most women don’t realize: that persistent fatigue, the mood swings you’ve been attributing to stress, even the stubborn weight that won’t budge—they often trace back to a butterfly-shaped gland in your neck that’s quietly starving.

    The Metabolism Master You’ve Been Ignoring

    Your thyroid controls more than you think. It’s not just about weight—it’s the command center for your energy production, body temperature regulation, mental clarity, and even how your heart beats. When it’s properly nourished, you wake up feeling restored. Your thoughts come quickly. Your body responds.

    But here’s the problem: your thyroid requires specific nutrients to function, and the modern diet is chronically deficient in the most critical one—iodine.

    Unlike vitamins your body can synthesize, iodine must come from external sources. It’s the raw material your thyroid uses to manufacture the hormones that keep your entire system humming. Without adequate iodine, your thyroid can’t produce what your body desperately needs.

    For women in perimenopause and menopause, this deficiency becomes particularly brutal. Hormonal fluctuations compound the problem, creating a cascade of symptoms that doctors often dismiss as “just part of getting older.”

    The Ocean Connection Nobody’s Talking About

    During my research into thyroid health, I came across something fascinating: the most bioavailable sources of thyroid-supporting nutrients don’t come from land—they come from the sea.

    Marine plants contain a unique profile of minerals and compounds you simply can’t get elsewhere. Fucoidan. Fucoxanthin. Astaxanthin. These aren’t just trendy ingredients—they’re carotenoids and minerals that directly support the systems suffering most during hormonal transitions.

    Icelandic kelp, when properly harvested and dried at moderate temperatures, retains an extraordinary concentration of iodine along with B vitamins your body needs for energy production. Dulse provides additional iodine in a highly absorbable form. Spirulina delivers antioxidant protection while your cells are under hormonal stress.

    Most people don’t realize that the fatigue they’re fighting isn’t a character flaw or inevitable aging—it’s cellular starvation of nutrients their thyroid and hormonal systems are screaming for.

    What I Discovered

    I spent considerable time looking for a formula that combined these nutrients in therapeutic amounts without the contamination concerns that plague ocean-sourced supplements. Most products either underdose the active compounds or source from polluted waters.

    Then I found something that brings together everything the research pointed to: Solle Naturals’ VibrantSea formula. What caught my attention was their approach to sourcing—geothermally dried Icelandic kelp to preserve the delicate nutrients, combined with spirulina, dulse, and Asian ginseng to address the energy and stress component that makes thyroid issues worse.

    The formula includes the specific carotenoids (Fucoxanthin and Astaxanthin) that research shows support hormonal balance and cognitive function—the exact areas where women during hormonal transitions struggle most. They’ve also included boron, which most people have never heard of but plays a crucial role in hormone metabolism.

    The Cost of Waiting

    Here’s the uncomfortable truth: every day your thyroid operates without proper nutritional support, you’re compounding the problem. Fatigue becomes your baseline. Brain fog feels normal. You adjust your expectations and accept a diminished version of yourself.

    Meanwhile, your body is desperately trying to signal what it needs. The irritability. The cold hands and feet. The thinning hair. These aren’t character flaws—they’re distress signals from a system running on empty.

    At $37.95, you’re looking at roughly $1.26 per day to provide your thyroid with the specific nutrients it needs to function optimally. That’s less than the coffee you buy hoping it will somehow fix your energy problem.

    Everything we’ve discussed—the iodine deficiency, the marine nutrients, the thyroid-hormone-energy connection—comes together in this single formula. You’ll find the complete nutritional support your body has been asking for, delivered in a form your cells can actually use.

    See exactly how VibrantSea addresses your specific thyroid and hormonal needs here.

    Your thyroid has been working overtime with insufficient fuel. The question isn’t whether you need targeted support—it’s how much longer you’re willing to function at half capacity before you give your body what it’s been asking for.

    Stay close to Abba

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    God bless