Category: Post Partum

  • COME TO ME EARLY

    COME TO ME EARLY

    “COME TO ME EARLY, COME TO ME OFTEN”

    Before your first meal…

    “COME TO ME EARLY, COME TO ME OFTEN”

    Before you start to stare at your circumstances…

    “COME TO ME EARLY, COME TO ME OFTEN”

    Before you feel the heartache start to take over…

    “COME TO ME EARLY, COME TO ME OFTEN”

    Before the sorrows of sheol start to encircle your vision …

    “COME TO ME EARLY, COME TO ME OFTEN”

    Before the quite despair begs for a place at your table

    “COME TO ME EARLY, COME TO ME OFTEN”

    Before you hold ought in your heart towards your husband…

    “COME TO ME EARLY, COME TO ME OFTEN”

    Before the unholy anger takes root…

    “COME TO ME EARLY, COME TO ME OFTEN”

    Before the anxiety and torment invite illness…

    “COME TO ME EARLY, COME TO ME OFTEN”

    “COME TO ME EARLY, COME TO ME OFTEN”

    I think sometimes as mothers it can be easy to fix our gaze on many things that won’t grow our relationship with God.

    Now it’s not just our hearts we tend and mend.

    We have been entrusted to hold our husbands hearts and hearts of our young ones.

    Let us go to Him early and go to Him often, because anything less of COMPLETE DEVOTION IS CERTAIN DEATH.

    With Love, JC

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    PS, if you are not doing a full body anointing as soon as you wake, you are missing out. You dont need any fancy oil. Just start with whatever is in your kitchen. Here is one of my absolute favorites.

    Stay close to Holy Spirit

  • Emergency Readiness: When Poop Hits The Fan Pt1

    Emergency Readiness: When Poop Hits The Fan Pt1

    Hi beloved,

    God has placed it in my heart to share over a series of what to have in your holistic emergency bag when things go dark so you can keep your loved ones alive and strong.

    As a former emergency department registered nurse & someone who worked at an herb shop, here is where I would start.

    The #1 Solle Vital

    This drink is exactly as it’s name- VITAL

    HERES WHY.

    1. Its loaded with minerals- the finest of the fine. Which mean energy in a crisis. Forget the coffee. Coffee kills and destroys the body. Coffee is what someone would give their enemy. Minerals help keep vitamins in the body.
    2. HIGH adaptogen herbs – which means its made for people going through HIGH STRESS situations like trauma, war, the battlefields. Spiritual & physical. For frontline warriors.
    3. Greens – this drink will help your body with the nutrients to help stop bleedings & skin recovery whether it be from wounds or childbirth.
    4. Chlorophyll- think poison- removes toxins and will oxygenate blood.
    5. INSTANT effects – i feel this drink in about 30 seconds. No joke. Its so bio-availabile that its absorbed FAST into the body & used immediately.

    6.No water needed. You dont even need water to take it so you can pour it dry in your mouth and chew it and be stay ready. Its a powder.

    7. Whole plant- which means you get the best of it in you body FAST because it has all the co factors and enzymes God created it for.

    8. pre measured – one pack is for one adult daily. So you dont have to mess around with wrong measurements in the case of an emergency. I take 3 a day when praying & fasting. Sometimes up to 5 when my body needs it.

    9. Strengthens immune systems- hardcore. Whenever I feel a sore throat i take 4 of these a day and 4 of the Red packs and BAM- it’s destroyed in Jesus name.

    10. Lifeline. this will help be a life line in times of great illness, famines and distress.

    11. Helps strengthen provide nutrients EVERY body system i can think of. Bones, liver, blood, heart, so on.

    12. Pregnancy & postpartum. Nutrient wise this is one of my favorite drinks for mamas. Period. Ive found nothing better & i’ve been around the block. People have tried to to recruit me for their companies and once i look at their ingredients… garbage. i cant serve my people with crap. Its an integrity thing.

    i can go on, beloved. tested for potency, heavy metals and pesticides.

    I would have at least twelve of the one hundred packs per person, that covers a year. This can even be used as something to trade in a crisis.

    Check this green gold here & hit the subscribe button for up to 25% off. Use this savings code as a wise steward: faithrefinedbyfire

    Stay close to God, JC

    *This statement and this product have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration and is not intended to prevent, treat, or cure disease. This website does not provide medical advice. The information provided is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always consult with a qualified healthcare provider before using any new product, especially for children.

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    studies & research:

    https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC7558817/

    https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC9919427/

    https://www.sciencedirect.com:5037/science/article/pii/S0753332223000173

  • The Real Reason You Can’t Think Straight By 2 PM (And It’s Not Just Lack of Sleep)

    The Real Reason You Can’t Think Straight By 2 PM (And It’s Not Just Lack of Sleep)

    You know that moment when you’re staring at your computer screen, reading the same sentence three times, and your brain feels like it’s wading through fog? Your coffee cup is empty again—the third one today—and you still can’t focus. You tell yourself you just need to push through, that everyone feels this way sometimes.

    But here’s what most people don’t realize: that afternoon mental fog, those relentless cravings for sugar at 3 PM, the way your energy crashes harder every single day—these aren’t separate problems. They’re all symptoms of the same underlying issue that’s quietly sabotaging your body’s natural stress response system.

    The Compound Effect Nobody Talks About

    Your body was brilliantly designed with built-in mechanisms to handle daily stress. The problem? Modern life has systematically dismantled those natural defenses without you even noticing.

    Poor sleep compounds into blood sugar instability. Blood sugar chaos fuels cravings. Cravings lead to energy crashes. Energy crashes destroy mental focus. And that lack of focus creates more stress, perpetuating a vicious cycle that gets worse every single day.

    According to the American Psychological Association, 33% of people now report feeling completely overwhelmed no matter what stress management techniques they try. That number was significantly lower just five years ago. This isn’t a willpower problem—it’s a physiological crisis masked as a productivity issue.

    What Your Body Is Actually Trying To Tell You

    When you can’t focus, when you’re reaching for your fourth snack before lunch, when you feel exhausted despite sleeping seven hours—your body isn’t broken. It’s screaming for specific nutritional support that most of us stopped providing decades ago.

    The indigenous cultures who traditionally consumed certain adaptogenic herbs didn’t experience our modern epidemic of brain fog and energy crashes. They understood something we’ve forgotten: the body needs specific compounds to maintain stable blood sugar, consistent energy, and sharp mental focus throughout the day.

    Here’s what I discovered while researching solutions for my own relentless afternoon crashes: the answer isn’t more coffee, stronger willpower, or better time management. It’s about giving your body the precise nutritional building blocks it needs to restore its natural stress resilience.

    The Missing Nutritional Link

    Certain plants contain remarkable compounds that work synergistically to address multiple stress symptoms simultaneously. Yerba mate, for instance, contains 24 vitamins, 15 amino acids, and a balanced form of naturally occurring caffeine that provides clean energy without the jitters or crashes. Cinnamon and nopal work together to help maintain normal-range blood sugar levels—eliminating those desperate 3 PM sugar cravings. Banaba leaf supports metabolic function while adaptogens increase stamina throughout the day.

    Most people try to fix these problems separately—a supplement for energy, another for focus, something else for cravings. But when you address the root cause—supporting your body’s natural stress response system—everything else falls into place.

    Everything Comes Together Here

    After months of research, I found something that brings all of these concepts together in one comprehensive solution: CinnaMâte from Solle Naturals. It’s a tested approach that combines blood sugar support, craving control, clean energy, gut health, immune support, and mental focus enhancement—all the elements we’ve discussed—in a single, convenient formula.

    What impressed me most wasn’t just the ingredient list, but the synergistic way these compounds work together to restore your body’s natural stress resilience. This isn’t about masking symptoms with stimulants. It’s about giving your body what it actually needs to function the way it was designed to.

    The truth is, you can’t willpower your way out of a nutritional deficit. You can’t “mindset” yourself into stable blood sugar. And you certainly can’t meditate away the physiological effects of chronic stress when your body lacks the raw materials it needs to mount an effective response.

    The sooner you address the nutritional foundation, the faster everything else—your focus, your energy, your ability to handle stress—naturally improves. You’ll finally understand what consistent, jitter-free energy throughout the entire day actually feels like.

    Your body has been trying to tell you something. Maybe it’s time to listen.

  • The Real Reason You’re Still Stuck (And How to Finally Break Free)

    The Real Reason You’re Still Stuck (And How to Finally Break Free)

    I see you over there.

    Scrolling through other creators’ profiles. Analyzing their growth charts. Wondering “How the hell did THEY get so big?”

    You know what you’re actually doing, right?

    You’re using other people’s success as an excuse to not build your own.

    The Comparison Trap Is Killing Your Progress

    “Well, they got lucky with a viral video…”
    “They had money to start with…”
    “They have better equipment…”
    “They’re more charismatic…”

    Blah, blah, blah.

    Here’s the truth you don’t want to hear: While you’re busy comparing yourself to people 5 years ahead of you, you’re NOT creating content that matters.

    While you’re analyzing someone else’s strategy, you’re NOT implementing your own.

    While you’re feeling inadequate, you’re NOT serving the people who NEED what you have.

    What Most People Don’t Realize About Success

    The person you’re jealous of? They started exactly where you are.

    They just didn’t stop.

    They didn’t let comparison paralyze them. They didn’t wait for “perfect conditions.” They didn’t need permission from anyone.

    They just built.

    But here’s what I discovered after years of watching creators succeed and fail: The difference between those who make it and those who don’t isn’t talent, luck, or resources.

    It’s energy.

    Specifically, the mental and physical energy to show up consistently when comparison wants to crush you. When doubt whispers that you’re not enough. When your body feels drained before you even start creating.

    The Foundation Nobody Talks About

    You can have the best strategy in the world, but if you’re running on empty—mentally foggy, physically exhausted, emotionally depleted—you’ll never execute it.

    I came across something fascinating while researching what separates consistent creators from the ones who burn out: a natural approach that addresses the physical foundation of sustained creative energy.

    Most people attack the symptoms—lack of motivation, procrastination, comparison paralysis—without addressing the root cause. Your body’s ability to regulate energy, maintain stable blood sugar, and support mental clarity directly impacts your capacity to create consistently.

    What I found remarkable about CinnaMâte® is how it supports the metabolic foundation that makes consistency possible. When your body has what it needs to maintain steady energy throughout the day, suddenly showing up to create doesn’t feel like climbing Everest.

    Your Turn: Stop Window Shopping, Start Building

    You can spend the next year watching other people win.

    Or you can spend the next year building something that matters to the people who actually need YOU.

    Not some mega-influencer’s audience. YOURS.

    The 100 people who resonate with YOUR voice. The people who GET what you’re saying. The people who would actually PAY for your help.

    But you can’t serve them if you’re stuck in the comparison trap, paralyzed by analysis, running on fumes.

    The sooner you address the physical foundation of creative consistency—the energy, clarity, and metabolic stability that makes showing up effortless—the faster you’ll see results.

    Everything we’ve discussed comes together when you stop looking outward at everyone else’s success and start building inward: your energy, your consistency, your unique voice.

    Start with the foundation that makes everything else possible, and you’ll see exactly how to apply these insights to your specific situation.

    Stop window shopping. Start building.

    The people who need you are waiting.

  • The Talent Trap: Why Gifted People Stay Broke While Mediocre Marketers Get Rich

    You’ve heard it a thousand times.

    “You’re so talented at this!”

    “Seriously, you could charge for that.”

    “If I could do what you do, I’d be making a fortune.”

    And every time someone says it, a little spark of hope ignites. Maybe this is it. Maybe they’ll become a client. Maybe word will finally spread.

    But then… nothing. The compliments evaporate. The praise goes nowhere. And you’re left wondering if you’re living in some alternate reality where talent doesn’t actually matter anymore.

    The Lie That’s Keeping You Stuck

    Here’s what most talented people believe: “If I’m good enough, people will find me.”

    It’s a comforting story. It puts the responsibility on the universe, on “fate,” on everyone else. You get to stay in your creative cocoon, perfecting your craft, waiting for someone to knock on your door with a briefcase full of money.

    Meanwhile, people with a fraction of your ability are booking clients, raising prices, and building actual businesses around skills you could do in your sleep.

    The difference? They stopped treating their talent like a secret.

    Talent Without Strategy Is Just Expensive Entertainment

    Most people don’t realize that skill and income have almost nothing to do with each other.

    You can be the most talented graphic designer, writer, coach, or creator in your city and still struggle to pay rent. Not because you’re not good enough. But because you’ve confused mastery with marketing.

    You’ve spent years honing your craft while people with half your talent spent those same years learning how to:

    • Package their skills into irresistible offers
    • Position themselves as the obvious choice
    • Communicate value in ways that make buying feel inevitable
    • Build systems that turn strangers into paying clients

    They’re not better than you. They just stopped waiting to be discovered.

    The Real Crime Isn’t “Selling Out”

    There’s this romantic notion that real artists don’t market themselves. That commerce corrupts creativity. That if you have to “sell,” you’re somehow less authentic.

    But here’s the brutal truth nobody tells you: Every day your talent stays hidden is a day someone who needs your help doesn’t get it.

    You’re not protecting your integrity by staying small. You’re protecting your fear.

    Fear of being visible. Fear of being judged. Fear of putting a price on something you love. Fear that if you try to monetize your gift and it doesn’t work, you’ll have to face the possibility that maybe you’re not as good as people say.

    So you stay stuck. Collecting compliments instead of clients. Building a portfolio instead of a paycheck.

    What Actually Changes Everything

    Here’s what I discovered after watching hundreds of talented people make this same shift: The moment you stop treating your talent like a hobby and start treating it like a business is the moment everything changes.

    Not because you become more talented. But because you finally give people a clear path to pay you for what you already do brilliantly.

    This isn’t about becoming someone you’re not. It’s about letting people who already want what you offer actually access it.

    While researching this pattern, I came across something that bridges this gap beautifully. It’s designed specifically for people who have the talent but haven’t yet built the business structure around it. This sample pack approach shows you how to let people experience what you offer without the pressure of a massive commitment—on either side.

    The concept is simple but powerful: lower the barrier to entry so people can discover your value firsthand. Once they experience quality, selling becomes unnecessary. They sell themselves.

    Your Talent Deserves an Audience

    Nobody’s coming to rescue you from obscurity.

    No algorithm is going to suddenly make you viral.

    No client is going to magically appear because you finally posted that thing you’ve been perfecting for six months.

    But the moment you decide that your talent deserves to be seen, packaged, and offered to people who need it? That’s when the compliments turn into clients. When the passion becomes profit. When the gift you’ve been hiding finally gets to do what it was meant to do: serve people and sustain you.

    The world has enough starving artists. What it needs is talented people who’ve learned how to turn their gifts into businesses that matter.

    You’ve already done the hard part—becoming excellent at what you do.

    Now it’s time to do the necessary part: letting people pay you for it.