Tag: Making Motherhood Great Again

  • The Talent Trap: Why Gifted People Stay Broke While Mediocre Marketers Get Rich

    You’ve heard it a thousand times.

    “You’re so talented at this!”

    “Seriously, you could charge for that.”

    “If I could do what you do, I’d be making a fortune.”

    And every time someone says it, a little spark of hope ignites. Maybe this is it. Maybe they’ll become a client. Maybe word will finally spread.

    But then… nothing. The compliments evaporate. The praise goes nowhere. And you’re left wondering if you’re living in some alternate reality where talent doesn’t actually matter anymore.

    The Lie That’s Keeping You Stuck

    Here’s what most talented people believe: “If I’m good enough, people will find me.”

    It’s a comforting story. It puts the responsibility on the universe, on “fate,” on everyone else. You get to stay in your creative cocoon, perfecting your craft, waiting for someone to knock on your door with a briefcase full of money.

    Meanwhile, people with a fraction of your ability are booking clients, raising prices, and building actual businesses around skills you could do in your sleep.

    The difference? They stopped treating their talent like a secret.

    Talent Without Strategy Is Just Expensive Entertainment

    Most people don’t realize that skill and income have almost nothing to do with each other.

    You can be the most talented graphic designer, writer, coach, or creator in your city and still struggle to pay rent. Not because you’re not good enough. But because you’ve confused mastery with marketing.

    You’ve spent years honing your craft while people with half your talent spent those same years learning how to:

    • Package their skills into irresistible offers
    • Position themselves as the obvious choice
    • Communicate value in ways that make buying feel inevitable
    • Build systems that turn strangers into paying clients

    They’re not better than you. They just stopped waiting to be discovered.

    The Real Crime Isn’t “Selling Out”

    There’s this romantic notion that real artists don’t market themselves. That commerce corrupts creativity. That if you have to “sell,” you’re somehow less authentic.

    But here’s the brutal truth nobody tells you: Every day your talent stays hidden is a day someone who needs your help doesn’t get it.

    You’re not protecting your integrity by staying small. You’re protecting your fear.

    Fear of being visible. Fear of being judged. Fear of putting a price on something you love. Fear that if you try to monetize your gift and it doesn’t work, you’ll have to face the possibility that maybe you’re not as good as people say.

    So you stay stuck. Collecting compliments instead of clients. Building a portfolio instead of a paycheck.

    What Actually Changes Everything

    Here’s what I discovered after watching hundreds of talented people make this same shift: The moment you stop treating your talent like a hobby and start treating it like a business is the moment everything changes.

    Not because you become more talented. But because you finally give people a clear path to pay you for what you already do brilliantly.

    This isn’t about becoming someone you’re not. It’s about letting people who already want what you offer actually access it.

    While researching this pattern, I came across something that bridges this gap beautifully. It’s designed specifically for people who have the talent but haven’t yet built the business structure around it. This sample pack approach shows you how to let people experience what you offer without the pressure of a massive commitment—on either side.

    The concept is simple but powerful: lower the barrier to entry so people can discover your value firsthand. Once they experience quality, selling becomes unnecessary. They sell themselves.

    Your Talent Deserves an Audience

    Nobody’s coming to rescue you from obscurity.

    No algorithm is going to suddenly make you viral.

    No client is going to magically appear because you finally posted that thing you’ve been perfecting for six months.

    But the moment you decide that your talent deserves to be seen, packaged, and offered to people who need it? That’s when the compliments turn into clients. When the passion becomes profit. When the gift you’ve been hiding finally gets to do what it was meant to do: serve people and sustain you.

    The world has enough starving artists. What it needs is talented people who’ve learned how to turn their gifts into businesses that matter.

    You’ve already done the hard part—becoming excellent at what you do.

    Now it’s time to do the necessary part: letting people pay you for it.

  • You Don't Have an Audience Problem. You Have an Ownership Problem.

    Let me guess.

    You woke up this morning, reached for your phone before your feet hit the floor, and opened Instagram. Not to post. Not to engage. But to check.

    Did yesterday’s Reel perform? Did the algorithm decide you were worthy today? Did your carefully crafted post reach more than your usual 63 people?

    And then that familiar knot formed in your stomach.

    Because deep down, you know the truth: You don’t own your business. The platform does.

    The Hamster Wheel You Mistake for a Business

    Here’s what most people don’t realize: Every hour you spend optimizing for the algorithm is an hour you’re building someone else’s empire while yours crumbles.

    You’re not creating content. You’re creating dependency.

    Dependency on reach that can vanish overnight. Dependency on an audience you can’t contact if the platform bans you tomorrow. Dependency on dopamine hits disguised as “engagement metrics.”

    Meanwhile, your body is keeping score.

    The cortisol spike every time you check analytics. The anxiety that lives in your chest between posts. The exhaustion that comes from performing for an audience you don’t actually own.

    Your nervous system knows something your conscious mind hasn’t accepted yet: This isn’t sustainable.

    What Freedom Actually Looks Like

    I spent two years in the algorithm trap before I discovered something that changed everything.

    The creators who seem calm? Who post consistently without desperation? Who actually take weekends off?

    They’ve figured out what you’re still learning: Social media is traffic, not a business model.

    They use platforms to attract ideal customers, then they move those people somewhere they actually own—an email list, a community, a relationship that doesn’t evaporate when Mark Zuckerberg decides to change the rules again.

    And here’s the part that nobody talks about: Their bodies feel different too.

    Less inflammation from chronic stress. Better sleep because they’re not wondering if tomorrow’s content will “hit.” More energy because they’re not pouring their life force into a slot machine designed to keep them pulling the lever.

    The Bridge Between Where You Are and Where You Need to Be

    Building a business you actually own requires two things most creators are missing:

    First: A foundation that supports your nervous system, not just your content calendar. When your body is depleted, your creativity suffers. When your stress hormones are constantly elevated, your decision-making gets cloudy. You can’t build something sustainable from a state of depletion.

    Second: A system that generates income independent of algorithm approval. An offer. An email list. A way to serve people that doesn’t require you to dance for reach.

    Most people focus on the second part and wonder why they still feel like they’re drowning.

    What I discovered changed my entire approach: You need both.

    I came across something fascinating while researching how successful entrepreneurs maintain their energy while building real businesses—this Sample Pack from Solle Naturals that addresses the physical foundation most business advice completely ignores.

    Here’s what caught my attention: It’s designed specifically for people who are burning out while building—addressing energy, stress response, and the inflammation that comes from chronic algorithm anxiety. The “your body • your life” approach recognizes something most business coaches miss entirely: You can’t build a sustainable business from an unsustainable body.

    Why This Matters Right Now

    Every day you spend building on rented land is another day you’re one algorithm change away from starting over.

    Every week your nervous system stays in fight-or-flight mode is another week you’re making decisions from survival, not strategy.

    The sooner you address both the physical foundation and the business structure, the faster you move from content creator to business owner.

    You’ll see exactly how supporting your body’s stress response changes your content quality, your decision-making, and your ability to build something that actually lasts—regardless of what Instagram does tomorrow.

    So here’s your choice:

    Keep refreshing your analytics, hoping this post performs better than the last one, slowly burning out while building someone else’s platform.

    Or start building something you actually own—beginning with the physical foundation that makes everything else possible.

    The algorithm will still be there tomorrow.

    The question is: Will you?

  • When Bible Stories Come Alive: How God Used Comic Books to Transform Our Family Devotions

    When Bible Stories Come Alive: How God Used Comic Books to Transform Our Family Devotions

    Woman of God!

    I am SO EXCITED to share this with you!

    I never thought I’d be writing about comic books in relation to spiritual growth.

    But isn’t it just like our creative God to show up in unexpected ways?

    Last week, as I watched my 4-year-old son completely absorbed in Scripture for the first like I’ve never seen him- just completely come alive & want us to read more & more, tears of gratitude streamed down my face after I put him to bed. God birthed a new excitement in our home!

    The Struggle Can Be Real

    Family Bible time can become a battle in many homes.

    But it doesn’t have to be and I am super grateful it’s treasured in our home.

    I really see this Bible changing this generation in a beautiful Holy Spirit inspired way.

    A Divine Appointment

    A sister in Christ share about this Bible I’d never seen, The Action Bible. My initial skepticism (comic book Bible?) quickly turned to awe as I searched the stunning illustrations created by a former Marvel & DC Comics artist.

    This wasn’t just another picture Bible – it was a masterfully crafted visual journey through Scripture that maintained biblical accuracy while bringing the stories to life in a whole new way!!!

    The vivid illustrations spark deep conversations about God’s character. These are the meaningful moments I’d been praying for! Oh and HUGE plus- they actually make Jesus look like a manly man! Not some eunuch. Praise the Lord!

    A Tool, Not a Replacement

    Let me be clear – The Action Bible doesn’t replace regular Scripture reading. Instead, it serves as a powerful bridge, especially for visual learners and young minds. It’s helping my children build a solid biblical foundation that makes reading the full Bible more meaningful.

    As Proverbs 22:6 says, “Train up a child in the way he should go…” Sometimes that training requires creative approaches that meet our children where they are. It’s not just for children but to impact this next generation that LOVES comics & anime & manga. Christ is storming the market place!

    An Invitation to Experience It

    If you’re struggling to engage your children with Scripture, I want to share this resource that has blessed our family so deeply. The Action Bible has become a treasured part of our spiritual journey, and I believe it could do the same for you.

    I think every home ought to have one!

    You can find The Action Bible here: https://ariselikeesther.com/csp/v.php?page=julianne-0805-amor-6f979a-2348

    Whatever you decide, I’m praying that God gives you wisdom and creativity in teaching your children His Word. May He continue to surprise us with His innovative ways of reaching young hearts for His glory!

    Love, JC

  • From God-hater to foster care advocate: My unexpected calling

    From God-hater to foster care advocate: My unexpected calling

    I remember being a young child, tears streaming down my face as I was longing for some of our childhood best friends.

    They were in and out of foster care. They moved often.

    Maybe you’ve watched helplessly as children you cared about disappeared from your life, moved by systems beyond your control. Maybe you’ve felt that ache of wanting to help but not knowing how.

    We spent years together growing up and my heart deeply loved them but also hurt deeply for them.

    Years later my God-hating self ended up at an herb shop and though I went in for herbs, I came out with the Living God – Jehovah.

    As I read the Bible, I was surprised to see James 1:27 – “Pure and undefiled religion before God the Father is this: to care for orphans and widows in their distress.”

    This ONE verse changed everything.

    As I drew closer to God over the years & learned about who He really was and not just what religion teaches – God started to break my heart for what breaks His – the 400,000+ precious children in the foster care system who need to know they are seen, known, and deeply loved.

    I had no idea God loved the orphans so much. It was honestly hard for me at the time to believe that God loved children so much after seeing some of the things I did as a child – often questioning where God was.

    Fast forward to nursing school I wanted to adopt a newborn baby. He was my patient and also being weaned off of narcotics. I wept hard because I wanted to adopt him but it wasn’t God’s time.

    Maybe you’ve felt that same stirring. That gentle whisper asking you to step out in faith to make a difference. But then the doubts creep in:

    • “I could never do foster care”
    • “What if I get too attached?”
    • “What if it’s too hard?”
    • “What if I’m not equipped?”
    • “How can I really help?”

    Beloved, I’ve learned that the enemy loves to use fear and misconceptions to keep us from walking in God’s calling. For years, I believed the lies that foster care was too messy, too painful, too complicated.

    But God showed me that His perfect love casts out all fear (1 John 4:18). Fear is NOT of God, not is it normal and should NEVER be tolerated.

    Abba also showed me that I did not need to go adopt in order to make a difference. Sometimes He calls you now, to help how you are able to, where you are at. While at the same time preparing your heart for more at a later timeline.

    The truth is, every child deserves to know they are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14). To know that they matter and to know the love of God.

    This is why my heart leapt when I discovered Seint’s commitment to transforming lives through their Angels Landing and Love is Never Wasted foundations.

    Their mission isn’t just about making people look beautiful on the outside – it’s about helping them believe they are beautiful, worthy, and valued.

    Through these foundations, they’re tackling the foster care crisis head-on:

    • Myth Demolition System – Dispelling lies that keep families from fostering
    • Village Support Network – Wrapping around families who say yes
    • Future Launch Program – Supporting youth aging out of the system

    They understand that every child needs a village of support, just as we need the body of Christ.

    You might be thinking, “But what can I really do?”

    Remember the story of the five loaves and two fish (Matthew 14:13-21). Jesus took one small offering and multiplied it to feed thousands.

    Your step of faith – however small it may seem – can create ripples of impact.

    When you purchase Seint’s Angels Landing or Stay Golden eyeshadows, 100% of proceeds go directly to these life-changing foundations. But more than that, you become part of a movement that declares “love is never wasted” over every foster child’s life.

    As I’ve walked this journey, I’ve seen God’s faithfulness in every step – even when it’s been so hard.

    Whether He’s nudging you toward fostering, supporting foster families, or simply being more aware and involved, remember: He will make a way where there seems to be no way.

    Don’t quit before your miracle. Lives depend on it. And sometimes YOU are somebody else’s miracle.

    If you feel that gentle tug on your heart, I invite you to take one small step today:

    Learn more about Angels Landing and Stay Golden

    → Consider how your purchase of these two beautiful eyeshadows could help create lasting change

    → Most importantly, pray about how God might use you to show His love to a child who needs to know they matter

    For His glory always and may He get ALL the glory,
    JC

  • The Hidden Hormone Crisis: Why Your Body’s Control Center Might Be Crying for Help

    The Hidden Hormone Crisis: Why Your Body’s Control Center Might Be Crying for Help

    Hi beautiful,

    Have you noticed how despite getting enough sleep, eating well, and trying to manage stress, something still feels… off? Maybe it’s the brain fog that rolls in around 2 PM, or that unexplained fatigue that no amount of coffee seems to fix, or the stubborn belly fat that won’t budge & has been there for years? If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone – and more importantly, you’re not imagining things.

    What are Hormones Anyway?

    We hear it all the time.

    Hormones are chemical substances that are secreted into the blood, and carried by the blood, tissues and fluids to targeted locations in the body.

    They fall into the category of endocrine signaling because they are secreted by endocrine glands.

    Sometimes it is used for substances that are not secreted by endocrine glands but have a similar effect.

    The Modern Hormone Puzzle

    Here’s what most wellness articles won’t tell you: our hormonal systems are facing unprecedented challenges in today’s world. It’s not just about stress or aging – we’re dealing with living in a perfect storm of hormone disruption.

    That organic produce you’re eating? It’s grown in soil depleted of crucial minerals.

    That “clean” water you drink? Loaded with hormone-disrupting chemicals that your grandfather never had to deal with.

    Think of your endocrine system as your body’s master control center. When it’s working properly, it orchestrates everything from your energy levels and mood to your metabolism and reproductive health. But here’s the breakthrough insight that changed my understanding: hormone imbalances don’t just happen overnight – they’re the culmination of thousands of tiny disruptions our bodies face every day.

    The Adaptation Crisis

    Our bodies were designed with an incredible ability to adapt to stress and maintain balance. But this natural resilience requires specific nutritional and botanical support – support that’s increasingly hard to get from our modern food supply alone.

    You know how in the Bible, they would let the soil rest every seven years or so for sometime? That would allow the soil to have a chance to rest, and not become “dead soil.” Where is that being done now?

    Here’s what’s fascinating: traditional cultures have long understood this challenge. In the high Andes mountains, where environmental stresses are extreme, people have relied for centuries on adaptive plants like maca – not just one variety, but multiple types, each supporting different aspects of hormonal health.

    The Three-Pillar Solution

    Through years of research and working with clients, I’ve discovered that sustainable hormone balance rests on three crucial pillars:

    1. Adaptogenic Support: Using plants that help your body respond to stress without overstimulating any one hormonal pathway
    2. Systemic Clearing: Supporting your body’s natural detoxification systems to remove hormone-disrupting compounds
    3. Nutritional Foundation: Providing the specific nutrients your endocrine system needs to function optimally

    Your Path Forward

    The good news? Once you understand these principles, small strategic changes can create powerful cascading effects. Clients who address their hormone health often report improvements far beyond their initial concerns – from better sleep and mental clarity to improved relationships and workplace performance.

    The key is choosing solutions that work with your body’s natural intelligence, not against it. Look for comprehensive approaches that combine traditional wisdom with modern scientific understanding.

    If you’re ready to take the next step in your hormone health journey, I invite you to explore natural solutions that honor these principles. One option I particularly respect is SolleExcell®, which thoughtfully combines three types of maca with clarifying herbs and immune-supporting superfruits.

    Learn more about how SolleExcell® supports your body’s natural hormone balance → (savings code: faithrefinedbyfire)

    Remember the “dead soil” problem? Here’s what makes SolleExcell different. The testing.

    What do we test for?

    1. Purity – checks for any contaminants such as microbials, pesticides and heavy metals.

    2. Potency – certifies the strength and effectiveness of the raw material. This can include the concentration of a nutrient or active ingredient, as well as its bio-availability.

    3. Identity – guarantees that the raw material we received is what our supplier said it is and that its composition and characteristics meet our standards.

    Remember: Your body wants to be in balance. Sometimes it just needs the right support to find its way back home.

    Stay close to Abba 💛

    Julianne Clark