Author: Julianne Clark

  • The Hidden Reason Your Self-Care Routine Feels Like Another Chore on Your List

    The Hidden Reason Your Self-Care Routine Feels Like Another Chore on Your List

    The Hidden Reason Your Self-Care Routine Feels Like Another Chore on Your List

    Hi beloved!

    Every mom knows the guilt. You buy the fancy bath products, the essential oils, the candles that promise relaxation. They sit in your cabinet, mostly untouched, while you collapse into bed each night wondering why you can’t seem to prioritize yourself.

    Here’s what most people don’t realize: it’s not that you don’t want self-care. It’s that most self-care products feel like work. Another thing to remember. Another step in an already overwhelming routine. Another reminder that you’re “supposed” to be taking better care of yourself.

    The irony? The products designed to help you relax are actually adding to your mental load.

    The Experience Gap

    Research shows that mothers are more likely to follow through with self-care when it delivers an immediate sensory reward—something that interrupts the stress cycle the moment you engage with it. Not ten minutes later. Not after a complicated ritual. Immediately.

    This is why certain products become non-negotiables while others gather dust. The difference isn’t in the quality of ingredients or the price point. It’s in whether the product transforms a mundane moment into something you actually look forward to.

    Think about it: when was the last time you reached for something in your cabinet that genuinely excited your senses? That made you pause and think, “This is MY moment”?

    The Aromatic Reset Button

    There’s fascinating science behind scent and emotional regulation. Certain aromas can trigger an immediate shift in your nervous system—moving you from sympathetic (stress mode) to parasympathetic (rest mode) in seconds. This isn’t woo-woo wellness talk. This is documented neuroscience.

    But here’s the catch: not all aromatic products create this effect. Many smell nice without creating an actual experience. They’re pleasant but forgettable. They don’t interrupt your stress pattern—they just exist alongside it.

    The products that become genuine tools for maternal mental health? They’re the ones that make you stop what you’re doing. That make your shoulders drop. That create a micro-vacation for your nervous system.

    What Your Cabinet Is Missing

    Most mothers don’t need more products. They need one or two that actually deliver on the promise of self-care without feeling like another task. Products that work with your life, not against it.

    The challenge is finding something that checks all the boxes: immediate sensory impact, natural ingredients that align with your values, and an experience compelling enough that you’ll actually use it consistently.

    This is why when mothers discover products that truly deliver this level of experience, they become evangelical about sharing them. Not because they’re salespeople, but because they’ve finally found something that makes self-care feel effortless rather than effortful.

    The Solution That Mothers Keep Coming Back To

    Everything we’ve discussed—the immediate sensory reset, the aromatic interruption of stress patterns, the experience that makes self-care feel like a gift rather than a chore—comes together in solutions specifically designed for maternal wellness.

    I’ve found something that brings all of these concepts together in a practical, evidence-based format: Solle Agile™ has become the product that mothers describe as “the one thing in my cabinet that I actually use every single day.”

    What makes it different is the immediate experience. Women report that the scent alone creates an instant shift—transforming routine moments into genuine self-care experiences. It’s comprehensive in addressing what busy mothers actually need: something that works immediately, fits seamlessly into existing routines, and delivers consistent results.

    You’ll see exactly how a tested approach to maternal wellness can transform your daily routine from surviving to thriving. The sooner you implement strategies that actually work with your nervous system rather than against it, the faster you’ll reclaim those moments of peace you’ve been craving.

    Your cabinet doesn’t need more products that make you feel guilty for not using them. It needs the one thing you’ll reach for every single day—the reset button that actually works.

    Love ya, JC

    Stay close to Abba

    I LOVE MINE!

  • You're Not "Fine." You're Running On Fumes And Calling It Faith.

    Stop lying to yourself.

    When someone asks “How are you?” and you automatically respond “Blessed and highly favored” while your jaw clenches…

    When you snap at your kids for the third time today and tell yourself it’s just because you’re “a little tired”…

    When you honestly can’t remember the last time you felt genuine joy instead of just… surviving another day…

    That’s not faith. That’s burnout wearing a Christian t-shirt.

    And here’s what most people don’t realize: The same Bible that tells us “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me” also says “Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit?”

    God designed your body with limits. Not because He’s weak. Not because you lack faith. But because He’s wise.

    Those limits? They’re signals. Your body is screaming at you in the only language it knows:

    → Chronic fatigue is a signal
    → Brain fog is a signal
    → Irritability is a signal
    → Sleep problems are a signal
    → Getting sick constantly is a signal

    You can ignore the signals. Or you can respond to them.

    The Cost of Running Your Temple Into The Ground

    Here’s the brutal truth nobody wants to say out loud:

    When you push through exhaustion and call it faithfulness, you’re not honoring God. You’re insulting His design.

    When you refuse to support your body because “real Christians just pray harder,” you’re not demonstrating trust. You’re practicing spiritual bypassing.

    And the cost? It’s not just you who pays it.

    Your kids remember the snapping more than the serving. Your spouse sees the resentment in your eyes. Your ministry suffers because you’re running on empty and everyone can tell.

    You can only disappoint people once. The worn-out, burned-out version of yourself damages relationships and credibility in ways that take years to rebuild—if they can be rebuilt at all.

    What Your Body Actually Needs

    Responding to your body’s signals doesn’t mean quitting your calling or abandoning your responsibilities.

    It means giving your body the support it needs to handle the load you’re carrying.

    Here’s what I discovered while researching how stressed believers can honor both their calling and their physical design: God didn’t just create our bodies with limits—He also provided solutions from the earth itself.

    Adaptogens aren’t some New Age invention. They’re plant-based compounds that help your body regulate stress hormones naturally. They support your adrenal system. They help you sleep deeper and think clearer.

    They’re not replacing faith. They’re honoring the temple.

    Most people treat their bodies like rental cars—abuse them, ignore the warning lights, and assume someone else will deal with the damage. But you only get one body for your one life. The mission God gave you requires a functioning vessel to carry it out.

    The Path Forward

    The difference between thriving and merely surviving often comes down to one decision: Will you support your body the way God designed it to be supported?

    Not with more caffeine and willpower.

    Not with guilt and “trying harder.”

    But with actual, physical support that addresses what’s happening at the cellular level.

    I came across something that bridges this gap perfectly—a way to experience how targeted adaptogenic support actually feels in your body without committing to a full investment upfront. This sample pack approach lets stressed believers test whether supporting their adrenals and stress response makes the difference they desperately need.

    Because here’s the reality: You can keep calling exhaustion “faithfulness.”

    Or you can start treating your body like the temple God said it is.

    The choice has always been yours. But ignoring it is still a choice—and it’s costing you more than you realize.

    Your calling matters too much to run it into the ground because you confused self-destruction with devotion.

    With love, JC

    Stay close to Holy Spirit

  • JESUS CONTOUR

    JESUS CONTOUR

    Hi beloved sister!

    So what else do we do as women of God every morning outside of staying prayed up and giving God our first fruits with our time as soon as we wake up?

    WE PUT ON THE MIND OF CHRIST!

    Amen. Amen!

    Barefaced me today. Yes i REALLY blend my makeup like this!
    Contour locations: Forehead- Jesus ♥️, nose, undereyes (the lightest parts of your undereyes- this seriously makes you look ten years younger), jawline, draw the heart of the Father on your cheeks, under lips and above for a bee stung appearance.

    Haha! Told you it be fun!!!

    It feels SOOO GOOD to write JESUS on my forehead haha. I almost don’t want to take it off because I Love Him so MUCH!

    God gave me this idea and I give HIM ALL the glory.

    It’s not just makeup… ITS WAR PAINT

    It’s not just contour… ITS PUTTING ON THE MIND OF CHRIST

    It’s not just getting ready… ITS COCREATING WITH GOD

    It’s not wasting time… ITS GETTING BATTLE READY

    Its not fleshy … ITS INTIMACY

    He is right there with you, smiling but also stroking your face. The way a loving Father does.

    Heart of the Father side views

    You may think this is silly, but God has such a sense of humor and He wants to be invited into your self love stewardship.

    There are many in the body of Christ who believe self love is not biblical… but the bible says Math. 22:39 You shall love your neighbor as [you do] yourself.

    They is a godly self care that honors our temple and honors our Lord Jesus.

    The final result

    No filters. Real Results. Blends like a dream with my favorite 4 in one Sword of the Lord Brush.

    I pray this made you smile.

    Joy is holy. Joy is God’s work.

    Love you precious Mama,

    Stay close to the Holy Spirit.

    Love, JC

    Here’s a the link to see Jesus Contour so you can have one too. ♥️

    1Cor 2:16

    We have the mind of Christ.

  • You’re re So Busy Chasing Your Passion, You Forgot To Make A Living

    You’re So Busy Chasing Your Passion, You Forgot To Make A Living

    Let me guess your story.

    Someone told you: “Follow your passion and the money will follow.”

    So you did. You quit the safe job. You pursued the dream. You went all-in on what you love.

    And now you’re broke.

    Here’s what they didn’t tell you: “Follow your passion” is advice from people who already have money. The rest of us? We need a different strategy.

    The Reality Nobody Mentions

    Passion doesn’t pay bills. Dreams don’t feed families. Following your bliss doesn’t create bank accounts. And doing what you love means absolutely nothing if nobody will pay for it.

    Harsh? Maybe. True? Absolutely.

    But here’s where most people get it backwards: They think passion and profit are opposites. That you have to choose between doing what you love and making money.

    That’s the lie that keeps you broke.

    The person making money from their passion? They didn’t just “follow” it. They weaponized it. They found where their passion intersects with market demand. They packaged their love into something people will actually pay for. They solved problems, not just “expressed themselves.”

    Big difference.

    The Bridge Most People Miss

    Here’s what I discovered after watching countless passion-driven entrepreneurs crash and burn: The ones who succeed understand something critical about business that the broke dreamers don’t.

    You can only disappoint your customers once.

    Most people don’t realize this, but forgiveness in business is nearly impossible to earn back. When you’re so focused on your passion that you forget about delivering genuine value to the people who pay you, you destroy the very foundation that could support your dream.

    The successful ones? They’re obsessed with their customers’ transformation, not just their own expression.

    They also understand another principle that separates the profitable from the poor: Building genuine relationships with people who actually care about what you offer is worth more than any social media following.

    Think about it. You’re out there “following your passion,” posting on every platform, creating content nobody asked for, expressing yourself into an empty void. Meanwhile, the person making six figures from their passion? They’re building an email list. They’re creating real connections with people who’ve raised their hand and said “Yes, I want to hear from you.”

    That’s not sexy. But it’s profitable.

    Your Passion Is The Vehicle, Not The Destination

    The destination is this: Providing for your family while doing something you don’t hate.

    That means your passion needs to serve something bigger than itself. It needs to solve real problems for real people who will exchange real money for real solutions.

    Passion without profit isn’t noble. It’s just broke.

    And here’s the truth that’ll either wake you up or offend you: If you’re not making money from your passion, you don’t have a business. You have an expensive hobby.

    The Framework That Changes Everything

    What if you could take what you love and build an actual business around it? Not by compromising your values or selling out, but by finally understanding how value creation actually works?

    The transformation happens when you stop asking “What do I want to create?” and start asking “What problem can I solve that people will pay me to fix?”

    That shift changes everything.

    After researching what actually works for people who’ve successfully monetized their passion, I came across something that addresses exactly what we’ve been discussing. It’s a comprehensive, tested approach that bridges the gap between loving what you do and actually making a living from it.

    What caught my attention is how it focuses on building sustainable energy and mental clarity—the two things most passion-driven entrepreneurs burn through first. When you’re running on empty, chasing a dream with no fuel in the tank, every decision becomes harder. Every setback feels catastrophic.

    I found this resource that brings together everything we’ve discussed—the physical foundation you need to show up consistently, the mental clarity to make smart business decisions, and the sustained energy to actually build something that lasts.

    Because here’s what most people miss: You can have the perfect business strategy, the most profitable passion, and the best intentions in the world. But if you don’t have the energy and clarity to execute consistently, you’ll still end up broke.

    So What Now?

    You gonna keep “following your passion” into poverty?

    Or are you ready to build an actual business around what you love?

    The choice is yours. But understand this: The sooner you implement these strategies—both the mindset shifts and the physical foundations—the faster you’ll see results.

    Your passion deserves better than broke. And so does your family.

    Everything we’ve discussed comes together in one comprehensive solution. You’ll see exactly how to apply these insights to your specific situation—and finally build the business your passion deserves.

  • You’re Not Tired, You’re Toxic

    You’re Not Tired, You’re Toxic

    Hi beloved,

    Let’s talk about some signs that the body is toxic and masquerading around as you feeling tired but can be a sign of something more.

    1. You feel like you have no energy when you wake up- it could be that your blood is toxic.
    2. You wake up NOT in peace but feeling like a million things are calling you from your todo list. It could be that your adrenal glands are stressed out and burnt out and your hormones are a mess.
    3. You have dark circles under your eyes and might even say it’s hereditary but wont go away. It could be that your kidneys are not filtering the way they should due to all the garbage they are facing. It’s like trying to use a snowblower on Mount Everest.
    4. You are fat and over weight and hate it. You feel stuck in a cycle. You eat because your sad. You’re sad because your fat and your fat because you eat unhealthy… amongst other things. This could be because you have microbes that are causing you to have unhealthy cravings.
    5. You feel like you can’t function until you have your first cup of coffee. This could be because the coffee is actually stealing vitamins and minerals out of your body and bones just to keep you alive. Coffee is sooo toxic.

    I could go on dear friend.

    The most simple way to start removing TOXINS from the body is to start adding SOLLE VITAL to your daily routine.

    HERE IS WHY

    1. It removes toxins gently so your not stuck on the toilet allday but its safe for daily use.
    2. It oxygenates your blood and CLEANS your blood!- which all the bad microbes or parasites in your body hate. Clean blood… your kidneys LOVE!
    3. Its a HIGH mineral drink which means it helps your body hold onto vitamins longer and boosts energy.
    4. It geared for HIGH STRESS lifestyles – I mean it was formulated for a postpartum Mama.
    5. Its plant food that deeply nourishes the organs that deal with stress, anxiety and fear- think of it as LIQUID SANITY.
    6. It nurtures your liver – and remember your liver was made to heal itself when given the right nutrients- this tea supports that process. Amen! and don’t forget your skin is a reflection of your liver! A healthy liver is KEY to beautiful skin not to mention it’s the organ that deals with DETOXIFICATION of TOXINS!
    7. HIGH in adaptogenic herbs. Think of these miracle plants like smart herbs… they go where they are needed in the body to HELP.

    I pray this blessed you.

    Stay close to Holy Spirit.

    Love, JC

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    Jeremiah 30

    17 For I will restore health unto thee, and I will heal thee of thy wounds, saith the LORD; because they called thee an Outcast.

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